Here's one of the best kept secrets when it comes to attracting women:
They use filter mechanisms and attraction triggers to decide which guy to sleep with.
Sounds pretty crazy, right?
Here's a good metaphor for one of the most powerful filter mechanisms woman have, called preselection:
In the wild, there's a certain type of fish called a guppy. And guppies have very simple brains - so they're not good at complex decisions.
When a female guppy is looking for a male to mate with, she keeps it super simple: the guy who's most brightly colored gets to sleep with her.
But here's where it gets crazy:
When there are two male guppies of similar color, the female guppy will then look for context clues to help her decide on who to mate with. She will begin to search around to see if either male hits any of her attraction triggers, like preselection.
The preselection attraction trigger is basically "if this guy already has a girl, then he must be desirable".
So if one of the male guppies already has a female guppy with them, the female guppy who is trying to decide who to mate with will automatically go for the guy that's already been preselected by another female. So he gets both.
But here's where it gets even crazier:
Even if one male guppy is WAY less bright than another male guppy - usually a recipe for never getting laid in the guppy world - if that same non-bright guppy already has a female guppy with him, the new female guppies will actually CHOOSE THE NON-BRIGHT GUPPY OVER THE BRIGHT GUPPY!
That's the equivalent of a model choosing to sleep with a quiet shy guy over a chest-puffing gym bro all because the shy guy already has a girl! Completely ignoring every other sign!
So, I know what you're thinking...